
I don't know what it is. First time in my life I come to see a girl, I feel like I'm 14 years old. Even when I was 14, I didn't feel like that.
- Rocky
There is a very definite difference between romantic comedies today, and those of the 60s and earlier. There was a sense of immediacy to the early rom-coms that is missing now. In modern romantic comedy, it is acceptable to allow the passing of weeks, months, even years, before there is any real finale or resolution. Whereas their early counterparts tended to show the classic whirlwind romances, that spanned mere days. I think, ultimately, the difference was that in the 60s, the belief in the real possibility of love was very genuine. It did not seem like a stretch for people to meet cute, and then fall in love through a series of ridiculous circumstances (see: Bringing Up Baby for the perfect definition of this). In a way I vastly prefer this form of romance because it is more whimsical, and more. . . romantic.
I was watching my new favorite channel (Turner Classic Movies) this weekend, while suffering through a bout of pink eye, and the announcer informed me they would be airing Love with the Proper Stranger, a movie I had never in my life heard of. And honestly, what made me want to watch it was the alusions made to Knocked Up one of my favorite films of 2007.
The plot is pretty basic. A scoundral jazz musician, Rocky, played by Steve McQueen (the role I will always now attribute to teaching me that I loved McQueen), had a one night stand with the lovely Angie, played by Natalie Wood, which resulted in her becoming pregnant. Rocky has no immediate recollection of their time together, when Angie comes to inform him of the outcome. All she asks him for is a doctor. (Bear in mind that in 1963, abortion was still a big scandal, and didn't happen out in the open). Angie's family is strict Italian-Catholic, so the entire event is clouded in shame for her (pre-marital sex, pregnancy, abortion). Rocky, for his part, is equally conflicted by the situation. He foolishly asks his live in girlfriend Barbie if she theoretically knows of any doctors, but she of course sees through it and kicks him to the curb.
Thus begins the series of events that bring the two together romantically rather than physically. Angie and Rocky get together the money for the abortionist, and while waiting to meet the doctor, are spotted by her protective brothers, and led on a chase through Manhatten by foot. They end up in an old factory, and spend time actually learning about each other as people, and find that the connection between them remains, in spite of their sordid past, and Rocky's questionable present. When they eventually reach the abortionist, the situation becomes quite frightening, as Rocky realizes the dangers that face Angie in the unsterile and unprofessional environment.
Rocky decides to make an honest woman of Angie, after the situation becomes apparent to her brothers. But Angie, to her credit, wants nothing to do with it. She refuses to marry Rocky simply out of a sense of duty. It is touching to watch McQueen especially in these scenes, where he is exposed as a genuinely emotional man. Of course, it's a romance, and you know they are meant to be together, but the bulk of the movie is their attempt to push each other away.
Wood is luminous. She is understated when necessary, and melodramatic when it is called for. She is beautiful beyond words in a refined Hepburn-esque manner, but it is her strength that is so refreshing. She faces everything alone, but with her head held high, and I believe Angie's character represents a truly engaging independent woman for her era, in spite of the connections she insists upon keeping.
McQueen, in my biased opinion, is perfect. He embraces the cheese necessary to make the film and character function. Every second he is on screen makes you aware of why they called him the King of Cool. He is. Self-aware and certain, even when he plays it unsure. He pulls off the roll of romantic lead just as easily as he plays a big action hero. He and Wood are both a joy to behold on screen.
The film isn't terribly unique by today's standards, but was likely well ahead of it's time in 1963. It is a genuine and warming love story, that happens in a hurry, but makes you believe that perhaps love is not so impossible after all.
(as a fair warning, Love with the Proper Stranger is NOT currently available on DVD, but if you have one of those old fashioned VCR-things, you can still get it on VHS)
***.5 of *****
3.5 out of 5

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